This was an email I sent to a friend on a discussion we were having and I felt the need to share.

Getting back on track about our discussion, for months at my job so many woman over weight of all sizes and even slightly are and have had the gastric bypass all in the name no one likes fat people but at the end of the day it shouldn't be about being fat....it about changing your way of thought on who your are and who you want to become in the change like do a person want to stay on the road of over eating and live unhealthy or do someone want to change and eat a healthy living style because no matter how many surgery someone may have if you haven't change the enter being nothing has changed. 

Now when it come to what others think it shouldn't be about what your outside look likes it should be about the content of your heart and spirit, everyone is dysfunctional in kind some manner because we are born into sin period. 

Now men and so many of them could care less about the content of a woman's heart they care about looks, sex, money and status even some of the Christians ones but I feel you deserve what you want but don't get mad when it's not what you thought, you see not all women who are over weight are unhealthy or unhappy and all thin women are not healthy nor happy. 

For me in thought of relationships it should never be in thought that someone wants to find someone because they don't want to be alone! that whole concept of thinking is crazy!!! why should someone end up with this type of person thinking they are being love but it's not that, its for the convince you see that person is with you because they don't want to alone....Oh hell naw! or someone escaping one relationship claim to be looking for someone better but in truth they need to be better to get better or someone killing themselves to be thin just for the love of a man!!! Hell to the double naw!!! 

What happen to just simple goodness, love doesn't need 12 roses to prove something it only need 1 rose or a walk in the park or conversation or a good movie with good food and laughter, a theme park of just old fashion fun....respect and honest. And choosing the fat girl and saying you don't have to walk this journey alone see I love you for who you are but I want to be apart of who you want to be and where you're going see just simple.

Demi~